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CompliantCoon
 
 
29 Sep 2020 21:12 PDT
I'm sorry
I'm sorry that you feel like you have to leave the site. The fact that you left a  shout on my page made me think you knew who I was and what I was about

I'm sorry for any pain I've caused you.

I would like to make it very clear I have never done anything sexual with a kid and don't plan to unless a lot changes, and I can know for sure it will go okay
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
30 Sep 2020 05:06 PDT
Re: I'm sorry
it wasn't your comments that really changed my opinion.
Although i'd seen a lot of close to the line MAP views of yours I think I could borderline tolerate that because you say you're law abiding.

Heck, I could see us getting on really well. We share a lot of common fetishes. but you have a reputation in other circles, that would cause people to jump to conclusions about me and my interests if I support you.
I dont get attracted or excited from smaller characters. but I do enjoy projecting myself into scenarios, and get enjoyment from others projecting themselves into those scenarios.

If you roleplayed I could easily see us getting on really well. someone being attracted to little me pooping my pants :P is quite enjoyable.



the problem I had was whoever had the audacity to comment on my art saying something along the lines of, seeing children causing excitement, excited them and also saying that life is really hard for a pedophile these days.

That comment broke down every tolerance I had for this place in the end. And I have to leave.
I'd be happy to continue chatting on telegram perhaps. But I hope you understand why I'm weary about that.
 
 
 
 
IanR1
 
CompliantCoon
 
 
30 Sep 2020 05:59 PDT
(Sorry the following message is kinda wordy and overly wrong. I just don't wanna be overly casual atm when things are tense)

I completely understand where you're coming from, and with how the world is currently don't blame you at all foe avoiding public association with people who have my attractions and/or views.

I also know exactly what you mean in terms of the distinction between you and us. The term that jumps to mind is "autopedophilia" arousal at the thought of yourself as a child. This is different from pedophilia which is arousal directed at other children.

From anecdotes and soem informal polling done by myself and friends (most not themselves open MAPs) it seem like sites like the cub community is about half and half between those whose attraction to subs is self-directed and those for who it is outwardly facing, with a sizable overlap.

Also I am skeptical that for most of those it is outward facing it is somehow limited timited to only cubs.That disticntion is frankly completely arbitrary. However this is probably not the time to go on a pet rant.

I do possibly selfishly feel somewhat hurt that you phrased your journal with the issue being us being allowed to go about our business, and not the real problem which seems to be fear of 'guilt' by association. But I can't really blame you because from what I've seen the ABDL/babyfur community is very toxic about such matters.

I do agree it is tactless at best to leave that sort of comment on an unknown entity's work, but my thoughts beyond that are complicated

And yeah I'd love to chat on telegram if you're down. I'm @ThatOneCoonie
 
 
 
 
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