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07 Nov 2019 17:26 PST
Hello
Hi, I've seen you around for pretty much the entire time I've been in the fandom. You made my icon way back, but we never really talked.
Once again thank you for watching me. It was a pleasant surprise seeing somebody who I've known about for so long watch me.
If you'd like to chat and get to know each-other better, I'm more than down with that.
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08 Nov 2019 05:59 PST
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08 Nov 2019 09:16 PST
Yeah. I've actually been on this site since I was 13, and come to accept the fact that I'm a MAP/pedophile when I was 14. I'm 21 now. I never really made any attempt to keep my attraction secret here, but I did recently start talking about it a lot more, and that journal, as well as my name change I guess made it extra clear. I've actually been making a fair number of new friends since those 2 things.
That's an interesting write-up. I admit I already knew most of that stuff, but it's nice to see it all in one place. I should probably start checking out the cited papers some time.
I do have to say that the only thing that jumped out to me as something I disagreed with was the informed consent article, specifically premise 2: "2. this issue is important because sex is risky, that is, potentially harmful." I honestly don't think that sex is inherently risky in the way to require "informed consent."
I do agree that it's best for even those who are pro-contact, like myself to refrain from sex with children, because of consequences that are caused by it being illegal, and seen the way that it is.
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08 Nov 2019 10:01 PST
That's because, hon, when I was writing that text, I didn't want to advocate a particular position on the age of consent. But rather, just explain the status quo for the newbie. I also don't personally agree with it, depending on what "sex" means. If it's a superficial thing, I don't think it needs it.
My views on the age of consent are elsewhere.
https://pedrapapeletesoura.wordpress.com/2011/10/21/sex...
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08 Nov 2019 10:16 PST
I was actually spacing out, and didn't realize that you were actually the one who wrote that text. You're a very good writer for not being a native English speaker.
By "superficial," do you mean non-penetrative sex? Or do you mean something else?
I'll have to read that other post sometime. It seems like it's literally novel-length (it's over 40,000 words), but I'm sure it's full of good insight.
Anyway, do you use Tox at all? That's typically how I chat.
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08 Nov 2019 10:33 PST
I do not. uwu I have F-List and Discord only. I don't usually discuss these things outside of my blog and the few things I send to Ipce. So, I don't have a lot of need for anonymity.
Yes, superficial is fondling, for example.
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08 Nov 2019 10:41 PST
I don't really use tox for the anonymity aspect, it's just convenient for me. I suck at replying to stuff like Discord messages, because I never notice notification sounds or anything. The only reason I can reply to people on Tox so easily is because I have it set to literally pop up over everything when I get a message.
Yeah, I agree that that sort of stuff can pretty easily be considered without risk. I think that the only risk that comes with most types of sex besides that (like blowjobs or whatever) is the risk of disease. However, this doesn't always need to be a huge consideration, especially if both people are total "virgins" which is totally possible even in pedophilic scenarios. I hope that someday soon the state of medicine is such where it doesn't have to be a consideration at all.
I do agree that anal and vaginal sex are probably not good things to have in most adult/minor relationships. It depends on the physical size difference of the participants more than anything. Also, because of the possibility of pregnancy for vaginal sex, a good argument could be made that it absolutely requires informed consent that a child may not be able to give.
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08 Nov 2019 10:58 PST
Then, we are on the same boat. uwu Which is surprising. We know each other for so long and I made your icon years ago. And now I see we have more in common than I expected. nwn
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08 Nov 2019 11:16 PST
Yeah. I never knew about you either. It's always nice meeting like-minded people. Even though we technically already knew eachother.
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08 Nov 2019 11:24 PST
I am in the closet, for the most part. uwu
*hugs you and pets your back*
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08 Nov 2019 11:27 PST
Yeah. I guess I'm just open here because I don't really have anything to lose. Since I've become more open, I've actually made at least 4 new friends. Because I so things so publicly, people know they can approach me.
*Hugs you back and does likewise*
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08 Nov 2019 15:46 PST
We need more people like you. uwu
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08 Nov 2019 16:00 PST
Thanks. It's nice to know you think so.
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09 Nov 2019 08:40 PST
So, yeah.
How are you today?
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09 Nov 2019 08:46 PST
I'm doin pretty good. I just got up.
How're you today?
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09 Nov 2019 12:35 PST
Mostly fine, thanks for asking. Just sweaty.~
Wanting to draw more of Soy Milk later on.
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09 Nov 2019 12:48 PST
You're welcome.
I might have to read Soy Milk sometime. I don't really read comics very often, but it seems interesting.
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09 Nov 2019 17:22 PST
If you say so, beloved. uwu *huggle, squeeze*
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09 Nov 2019 17:30 PST
*hugs and cuddles*
Not used to the sweet nicknames. It's nice. Native English speakers don't really do that unless they're really close to someone. Or it could be just you that's such a sweetie.
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09 Nov 2019 17:38 PST
I try to be a sweetie. I know it's something for close people, but I try to be as close as possible to everyone anyway. Not in a romantic way, tho. I tried before. All of my experiences with love were frustrating.
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09 Nov 2019 17:42 PST
Sorry you've had no luck in love. I've never even really tried myself. I've never even kissed anyone.
I'm not the best at expressing myself emotionally, so if I ever seem a bit distant, that's why. It's probably because I'm autistic.
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09 Nov 2019 17:48 PST
I kissed a few people, but in childhood.x3
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09 Nov 2019 17:55 PST
So, do you mind if I ask your age? I'm just curious, it doesn't change anything. I have friends young and old.
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10 Nov 2019 11:29 PST
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10 Nov 2019 11:36 PST
Cool. I honestly thought you might end up being a bit older with how long you've been around the fandom. Though considering I've been a member of all the furry sites since I was 13, you still joined significantly older than I did (at least for the accounts I know of / you still use)
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10 Nov 2019 13:30 PST
I joined at age 16. uwu In 2009. Via Deviantart.
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10 Nov 2019 13:42 PST
Yeah. I joined FA shortly after my 13th birthday, and IB a few months after that. That was in 2011-2012. I don't know anyone else who started quite so young, but I'm sure there are plenty.
Of course, that's when I learned about the furry fandom. I was pretty clearly already a furry, and read a lot of fanfiction for things like Pokemon and Sonic from the time I was like 9 or 10.
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10 Nov 2019 15:56 PST
I became furry by age 8, thanks to Diddy Kong, but only found the fandom by age 16. Diddy is my biggest cartoon crush. >//////////<
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10 Nov 2019 16:01 PST
My biggest cartoon crush is probably Tails from Sonic the Hedgehog. Though admittedly, most art of him isn't very sexy.
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10 Nov 2019 16:19 PST
Oh, while Diddy is my biggest, my first was kid Gohan.
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10 Nov 2019 16:21 PST
Kid Gohan is pretty cute/sexy. Now that I think of it, I probably had/have a bit of a crush on him too.
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10 Nov 2019 16:33 PST
His first incarnation, before Frieza's saga. When he trained with Piccolo.
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10 Nov 2019 16:36 PST
Yep, that's the one I most remember. I don't think I every watched Dragon Ball Z all the way through, actually. I only got to the android saga, I think.
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10 Nov 2019 16:41 PST
I watched everything too, was nice. Didn't like GT much.
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10 Nov 2019 16:49 PST
Yeah. I think I watched GT some when I was little. I don't remember much of it at all.
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11 Nov 2019 15:03 PST
You are missing nothing, tho. It's not good.x3
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11 Nov 2019 15:08 PST
I have weird tastes, though. Who knows, I might like it.
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12 Nov 2019 06:59 PST
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12 Nov 2019 09:51 PST
Weird tastes in general. I actually don't watch very much anime at all.
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12 Nov 2019 17:09 PST
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12 Nov 2019 17:13 PST
I am very much so up for discussing them. I didn't mean to come off as short or anything. I didn't know you wanted to know more. Sorry.
That's a nice little sketch page.
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12 Nov 2019 17:15 PST
No, I mean, I thought they were private interests. o.o
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12 Nov 2019 17:17 PST
Nah. I don't really have private interests, at least not with people who know I'm a pedo. My favorites are public, and they have all sorts of weird shit in them, and I'm more than willing to talk about stuff one-on-one, both of the pornographic, and SFW kind.
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12 Nov 2019 17:21 PST
Aah. Cause you said "weird tastes" and I wondered what that meant. o.o
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12 Nov 2019 17:41 PST
Well, in terms of NSFW stuff, I like wetting and messing quite a lot (as you probably could guess), which most people would find very odd.
However, I was more referring to the fact that in general, I tend to like things that many consider to be "bad." Like, many of my favorite movies have really bad reviews.
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13 Nov 2019 06:08 PST
Odd. Well, I like omorashi and I used to actively hunt cartoons with that thematic.
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13 Nov 2019 11:55 PST
I'm not the biggest fan of most thing labelled "omorashi" because I don't want the character wetting themselves to be upset by that fact, and if they're trying so hard to hold it, they probably will be. If anything, that makes me even weirder. :P
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14 Nov 2019 07:28 PST
That does make. You like voluntary wetting.
My cub likes both things. He holds it for pleasure. The release is the cherry on the top.
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14 Nov 2019 12:27 PST
Yeah. I do mostly like voluntary wetting. Sometimes "accidents" are okay, like a kid just getting really excited and wetting themselves, as long as the kid isn't upset by that,
Holding and release and definitely nice.
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15 Nov 2019 04:38 PST
We should RP sometime. o.o
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15 Nov 2019 08:41 PST
Yeah. I'm open to that :3
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15 Nov 2019 14:25 PST
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15 Nov 2019 14:40 PST
Honestly, I've only rped with one person, and that was like years ago. At that time, I was playing as Kenai, but in the third person, because I've never really been able to see myself *as* Kenai. We mostly did wetting and cub/cub yiff. Though, if I was actually properly rping in the first person, it'd have to be with an adult character.
In any case, like I said, I'm open to it, but I'm very inexperienced, so you'd have to help me along. I don't really have an F-List set up atm, but I did just create one because I needed to message somebody. I will work on doing that, though.
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16 Nov 2019 06:44 PST
We could do it via PM. o.o It's slow, but possible.
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16 Nov 2019 12:22 PST
Either way works for me, really. I do have a character created on F-List, I just haven't added my preferences or anything yet.
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17 Nov 2019 06:37 PST
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17 Nov 2019 11:41 PST
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