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23 Nov 2019 21:05 PST
Hihi cubby butt!
Hehehe, so you like poopy pants and tinkle and plushies and cubbies too huh? Wanna talk about it?
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23 Nov 2019 21:28 PST
Re: Hihi cubby butt!
Sure. I love meeting new people.
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23 Nov 2019 21:37 PST
Hehehe, so what are your ideal ages for cubs? My ideal age is mainly 2-5, but I can push it to 6 or 7. Also, I heard you're really into plushies. Do you like squirting or going tinkle all over them?
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23 Nov 2019 21:39 PST
My favorite ages are 4 all the way up to 12.
I do really like plushies, but I prefer not to risk damaging them by putting my body fluids on them. I do have one who I've peed on some, but that's it. Mostly I just kiss and cuddle them and fantasize while pawing.
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23 Nov 2019 21:46 PST
Hehe, I understand. I have a ton of plushies that I cuddle with every night, but I don't pee or squirt on them. However I also have a small collection of special plushies that I got just for naughty stuff like pee or squirt. The way I see it, I still show them love, just in a different way.
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23 Nov 2019 21:49 PST
Yep. To each their own. It just isn't an idea that excites me enough for me to actually do it.
So, what are some other things you like?
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23 Nov 2019 21:54 PST
Hmm, hehehe, I really love it when a cub has a teeny tiny stubby cut wee wee. I call it a button wee. It's when their little boyhood is just a tiny pink nub surrounded by a ring of skin on their crotch. So small and stubby that there's not even any shaft unless they get stiff.
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23 Nov 2019 21:56 PST
Interesting. I guess I don't care much what their dick is like, I'd just wanna make them feel good.
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23 Nov 2019 22:03 PST
Hehehe. So I got kind of a personal question here, but you don't have to answer it if you're not comfortable (actually I hope me messaging you out of nowhere isn't too weird and awkward). If you can remember when you were little (like potty training age) did you have any cute funny names for your naughty parts? I remember I used to call it my dicky bird. X3
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23 Nov 2019 22:08 PST
I don't remember. I'm sure I called it my "pee-pee," but I don't recall anything more interesting than that.
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23 Nov 2019 22:14 PST
Hehehe yeah. Pee pee is a common but cute one. After all, that's what it does. Also, what are you like with smells? I love musky pee pee smells and I imagine each cub's pee scent to be different.
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23 Nov 2019 22:23 PST
I like the smell of pee quite a bit. Both dried into fabric, and fresh.
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24 Nov 2019 07:59 PST
Hey sorry I kinda disappeared on you last night. I fell asleep. Hehehe, the smell of musky tinkle makes my dinky get all hard and pokey.
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24 Nov 2019 10:49 PST
No problem. Everyone needs to sleep.
Yep. Mine too.
Sorry. I'm having trouble thinking of things to say/ask.
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24 Nov 2019 11:03 PST
No I'm sorry. I kinda just messaged you out of nowhere and made it kinda awkward. I really hope I didn't bother you too much. Yeah, I'm a naughty foxy, but I also try to be a friendly foxy.
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24 Nov 2019 11:08 PST
I don't think you made it awkward at all. I just suck at thinking of things to say sometimes. You didn't bother me at all. I think you're pretty good at being friendly.
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24 Nov 2019 11:18 PST
Yeah. The thing is I was reading one of your stories and it made me feel all naughty, and when I feel naughty enough I sometimes message people at random and then regret it later because I just kinda forced myself on them out of the blue.
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24 Nov 2019 11:28 PST
I don't mind people reaching out to me at all. I love meeting like-minded people.
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24 Nov 2019 11:42 PST
I guess we are kinda like minded in that we both love cubby cubs and their little pee pees. But one way that we differ is that I take wet and messy play to the extreme. Most people hate that. Also there is another fetish I have with plushies and toys that you probably wouldn't like.
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24 Nov 2019 12:03 PST
Well, there's nothing wrong with having different ferishes. I also do like watersports, as in golden showers and stuff, I just don't wanna do it with partners made of fabric who are pretty much impossible to wash without damaging them.
I am curious to hear what the other fetish is. It probably isn't my thing, but I wouldn't be judgemental.
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24 Nov 2019 12:38 PST
Well do you watch Tiny Toon Adventures, and if so do you remember the episode where they tried to potty train baby Plucky?
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24 Nov 2019 12:47 PST
Nah. I think I saw a few episodes when I was a kid, but I don't remember anything specific.
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24 Nov 2019 13:11 PST
Oh...well I was just saying because it's what got me started on this fetish. I have an absolutely massive fetish for little cubs flushing their plushies and toys down the potty. It's kind of a personal fetish. Not many people are into it.
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24 Nov 2019 13:42 PST
Interesting. Yeah, I don't like any sort of plushie-disposal, but of course to each their own.
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24 Nov 2019 13:48 PST
Do you have any kind of weird or niche fetishes that not many other people have?
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24 Nov 2019 13:55 PST
Well, the fact that I only like happy, stress-free wetting and messing seems to be kinda rare.[
There are some things that I like that no one else seems to really notice, but I'm not sure if they're really strong enough to be fetishes. Like, I really like cubs wearing accessories, like necklaces, watches, and bracelets are stuff, especially if they're otherwise naked. Another thing I like is boys who like "girly" colors like pink, or other things considered to be somewhat girly, but are still overall very boyish, and secure in liking what they like.
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24 Nov 2019 15:19 PST
I also like happy stress free peeing and pooping. I like it to just be something that makes the cubs happy. I hate it when it's embarrassing or when they get punished for it. The only thing is sometimes I like if a cub is a little bit shy about it, but isn't ashamed at all. Maybe a cute little smile and a blush and "Hehe...I uh...I pee peed..." <3 Super cute!
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24 Nov 2019 15:21 PST
Yep. I agree 100%. A little bashfulness is fine, as long as they aren't actually ashamed of it.
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24 Nov 2019 15:36 PST
Hehehe, what about cubs going pee pee in the bath, or all over their bath toys (which are usually rubber or plastic)?
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24 Nov 2019 16:36 PST
That's perfectly fine, and pretty sexy honestly.
(sorry for not replying before. I got distracted)
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24 Nov 2019 17:17 PST
Hehehe, I also like it when they toot in the bath and bubbles come out of their butt. <3
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24 Nov 2019 17:24 PST
I'm not really very excited about farting unless it's a preface to soiling. Of course, everyone has different kinks
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24 Nov 2019 17:44 PST
I'm sorry. This is one reason why I have so much trouble meeting new people. Nobody ever likes the same stuff and sometimes it can rub people the wrong way. I mean, I know it's not rubbing you the wrong way, but it still makes me feel guilty and bad.
I got too carried away last night I guess. I'll leave you alone. Sorry for using up your time.
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24 Nov 2019 17:47 PST
I'm not upset at all. I actually really like talking to you. I don't want you to feel guilty or sad.
It'd be pretty boring if we all liked the same things. I like hearing about what makes us different.
*hugs* Please don't be sad. I swear I'm not upset.
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24 Nov 2019 17:52 PST
"It'd be pretty boring if we all liked the same things." Yeah, like everybody is into sleazy nasty obnoxious adult porn. Ugh. It just seems like everything I say, people are like "I'm not into that." It gets really really discouraging. It's like how literally everybody I meet hates Christmas because something bad happened to them around Christmas in the past, like a bad divorce, a family member dying, etc. I mean I understand, but when it's like every person you meet, it gets old.
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24 Nov 2019 18:05 PST
I actually love Christmas (even though I'm an atheist), so no worries there.
I honestly can't see how anyone can be into "normal" porn. Arousal is the last thing on my mind when I accidentally come across it.
Sorry we don't like more of the same things. We do seem to feel the same way about wetting/messing, and not wanting it to be stressful/embarrassing, which is a nice.
So, what are some of your non-sexual interests? (Not that I don't wanna still talk about naughty stuff)
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24 Nov 2019 18:32 PST
Well probably my main SFW interest would have to be trains. I'm not really talking Thomas the Tank Engine (although I watched that all the time when I was little). I mean more along the lines of real trains and models of real trains. You know how you are with including plushies in naughty wet messy play? That's how I am with trains. I live in the northeast US, which is a really really really good location for railroads. Lots of very fast and busy rail lines around here. Although it's the best place for trains in the country, the northeast is just about the worst place for being a cub. There's nobody like me around here, or at least nobody out of the closet.
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24 Nov 2019 18:45 PST
Yeah. Trains seem to be a somewhat common "nerdy" interest. I'm autistc (asperger's), and it's kinda a sterootype for autistic people to be into trains. It's not an interest I've personally thought mmuch about. My main "autistic" interests are animals, and computers, I think.
I don't have any irl friends with cubby interests either. I do have some good online friends, which is nice, though..
So, what media (shows, music, movies, etc) do you like?
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24 Nov 2019 19:07 PST
Well you hit the nail on the head there. Now I don't even have to explain why I'm so into trains. The exact same reason as you. Lol, and I wish I had a special interest for computers, because I know absolutely nothing about computers and it's nothing but hell and anxiety for me whenever one messes up, because I need them to work for my train sims and internet to keep me from going stir crazy, and I don't have the money for repairs or replacements. I do have a friend who knows a lot about computers...but he lives about 700 miles away from me in South Carolina. Trains are my (extremely stereotypical) special interest, and I'd say geology is my other big special interest, especially volcanology. I plan on going up to Washington state next year to visit Mount Saint Helens, which is a lifelong dream for me.
I don't watch much tv anymore, but I used to be into shows like Gumball, Zatch Bell, Kids Next Door, and a lot of the old Nicktoons like Rugrats, Rocket Power, Wild Thornberrys, Hey Arnold, and of course Spongebob (OLD Spongebob, the new shit sucks). I don't really watch movies that much anymore either, but some of my favorite movies are Star Wars, Lord of the Rings, Austin Powers, Halloween, and Harry Potter. Music is HUGE for me. I'm mainly into a lot of 60s, 70s, and 80s stuff. My absolute favorite genre of music is 70s progressive rock (so much so that it's like another special interest for me). These include bands like Yes, Rush, Genesis, Pink Floyd, Emerson Lake and Palmer, Jethro Tull, King Crimson, etc. 80s rock and pop is good too. Bands like INXS, Tears For Fears, Talking Heads, Men At Work, etc. I don't like much modern stuff. Modern pop and rap disgust me. However one form of modern music I fucking LOVE is vaporwave. It's kind of an obscure genre but it has a decent cult following. There's also similar genres like retrowave and synthwave that are cool too.
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24 Nov 2019 19:27 PST
(Sorry for the absolutely humongous message)
I can try and do my best to help when you have computer problems. Of course, that requires that you be able to message me, which isn't guaranteed to be the case, but if you are having trouble, and can message me, I'll do my best. Funnily enough I actually live pretty close to Mt. St. Helens. I've never actually been, though. I've had family and teachers talk for my whole life about what it was like when it erupted, and it is kinda interesting to hear.
I don't honestly watch much TV anymore either. The only fictional show I really care about these days is Rick and Morty, but I watched many cartons when I was younger. I would still watch a lot of them, and there are series that were before my time that I'd like to check out, I'm just too distracted doing other things. I actually made a huge list of every show I could remember watching as a kid, though I know that I'm actually missing some:
Little Bear, Bear In the Big Blue House, Rolie Polie Olie, Jimmy Neutron, Fairy Odd Parents, My Life as a Teenage Robot., PB&J Otter, Rugrats, The Wild Thornberrys, Strange Days at Blake Holsey High, Tutenstein, Krypto the Superdog, Dora the Explorer, Cow and Chicken, I Am Weasel, Codename Kids Next Door, Super Robot Monkey Team Hyperforce Go, Ben 10, Power Rangers, Malcom in the Middle, Ed Edd and Eddy, the Pokemon anime, Pinkie and the Brain, Buzz Lightyear of Star Command, Digimon, The Tick, Tom and Jerry, Loony Toons, The Pink Panther, Scooby Doo, Teen Titans, Camp Lazlo, Dexter's Laboratory, The Grim Adventures of Billy & Mandy, Johnny Bravo, The Powerpuff Girls, Samurai Jack, Popeye, SWAT Kats: The Radical Squadron, Johnny Test, The Marvelous Misadventures of Flapjack, Courage the Cowardly Dog, Foster's Home for Imaginary Friends, My Gym Partner's a Monkey, Sesame Street, Duck Dodgers, Dragon Ball Z, Dragon Ball GT, The Flintstones, the Simpsons, Yogi Bear, Yu-Gi-Oh!, Total Drama Island, 6Teen, Kenny the Shark, Thomas & Friends, Wizards of Waverly Place, Bob the Builder, Caillou, Cyberchase, Clifford the Big Red Dog, Mister Rogers' Neighborhood, Zoboomafoo, Bill Nye the Science Guy, Dragon Tales , The Magic School Bus, Invader Zim, Danny Phantom, Avartar: the last Airbender, El Tigre, Drake & Josh, Blue's Clues, The Backyardigans, Go, Diego, Go!, Kim Possible, Phil of the Future, The Suite Life of Zack and Cody, Lilo and Stitch: The Series, American Dragon: Jake Long, The Emperor's New School, Recess, The Wiggles, Stanley, and Spongebob.
The one show that's a big favorite of mine that no one else seems to really care about s Super Robot Monkey Team Hyperforce Go. Unfortunately it got canceled on a cliffhanger, and the planned last season whas never made.
Here's a long list of my media interests I typed up for someone else, but I think it's pretty relevant. We obviously have pretty different tastes in music, but that's not really importanr:
For me, in terms of music, I mostly like rap, but not really the type of rap that's super popular these days. In terms of mainstream stuff, I prefer stuff from the late 90s to mid 2000s, with some of my favorite artists being Eminem and Lil Wayne, but I also like weirder stuff. For instance, there's this South African Rap/Rave group that I like called Die Antwoord. I also like NWA quite a bit. In addition to rap, I like comedy music a lot, including artists like Tom Lehrer, Oscar Brand, Kunt and the Gang, and Rucka Rucka Ali. The closes thing I like to "pop" is pop punk from the late 90s to mid 2000s. Think groups like Blink 182. Another group that I like that's a bit different is the Pogues, and their lead singer Shane MacGowan.
In terms of movies, I mostly like animated kids movies with animals as main characters. Some of my faves are Zootopia, Over the Hedge, the Nut Job, and the original 101 Dalmatians. I like many other movies though of the same type. Another type of movie I don't mind is raunchy comedies, but in terms of those, I like weirder ones best. One of my faves is Deadpool.
In terms of TV, I don't watch much fictional TV, and the only show of that sort I really care about is Rick and Morty. I mostly watch cooking shows and educational stuff. Though, tbh I watch YouTube way more than I watch TV. I watch a lot of different types of stuff on YouTube.
Like I said, I watch a lot of different types of stuff on YouTube. Most of the stuff I like is informational or educational, but I also find it entertaining. One of my favorte things to watch is debunking videos, mostly to do with debunking religion and creationism (no problem if you're a believer, but I'm definitively not.) My favorite channels along those lines are VicedRhino, Paulogia, and Aronra. I also watch some types of gaming videos, even though I don't really play video games. Mostly just weird Pokemon challenges are what I watch. My favorite channels for that are John Stone, Pikasprey, JRose, and Smallant1. I also watch some other random types of content like BigClive.com (yes, that's his channel name), who's an electrician, and makes interesting videos, and Steve1989Mreinfo who makes videos where he eats old military rations.
I also like reading, but these days I mostly read cub porn on IB, and fanfiction rather than books. I also like reading what I like to call "pedo erotica" on a site called Nifty.
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24 Nov 2019 19:58 PST
WOW all those shows you mentioned were my fucking childhood! Also I saw you mentioned Zootopia. Who's your favorite character? Mine's Gideon. Hehe, he's such an adorable fat probably stinky foxy. Even though he's a bully in the beginning, I think all he needs is a big hug and some naughty playtime. I also like to imagine that he was a closet babyfur back then and had a whole bunch of diapees and baby stuff hidden away at home that nobody else knew about. Plus he's one of the EXTREMELY few characters I like both as a cub and as an adult. Although if I were ever to play naughty with him, it would definitely be the cub version.
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24 Nov 2019 20:24 PST
That probably means we're close to the same age, I just recently turned 21.
I actually have the first chapter of a Zootopia fanfic written where he gets the hugs and naughty playtime he needs. It doesn't really have diapers in it, but I'm thinking I may add them in the future.
I do like Gideon a lot. Finnick might be my fave, though. I'd love to see a cub version of him.
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24 Nov 2019 20:55 PST
Kinda close, although I have a few years on you. I'm 25. Hehehe, that's so adorable! What kind of wee wee were you gonna give him? A human like one or a foxy one? Foxy wees can be fun, it's just that I don't really like knots. Another fetish I'm into is super duper musky and stinky smells. Even just a cub's sweat and overall odor can make me pokey.
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24 Nov 2019 21:11 PST
I was gonna give him a fox one, just because I really prefer more anatomically correct bits, and I think it fits better for Zootopia-style anthros.
I also like musk somewhat, but I've only really thought about male genital musk. I haven't really been around kids enough to know how they smell.
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24 Nov 2019 21:44 PST
So one thing I've been thinking about. I saw your journals where you explain your interests and sexuality. While I would never fantasize about real children (fictional stuff on sites is good enough for me), I was wondering about if our autism might have something to do with our cubby fetishes and interests, instead of us just going for the first "hot stripper slut" we see like the rest of the general public. I mean, I always kind of looked at myself to have the body of an adult, but mostly the mind of a kid.
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24 Nov 2019 22:49 PST
(Sorry got distracted)
I think at the very least that my autism makes me more content with liking what I actually like.
I don't think there's anything wrong with fantasizing about real children, and even most anti-contact people wouldn't either. It's the actions that they care about, and I don't even think the actions are bad, but the laws and stuff being as they are might make it bad in some instances. I'm very open with discussing this stuff, though.
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25 Nov 2019 09:00 PST
The only thing I'm gonna say is be careful. There's always somebody watching no matter where you are on the internet and the government sets up traps all the time.
I guess the reason why we're into cubby stuff is because real porn tends to be a little well...harsh. I mean, I know that's not what real sex is like and that they act out a script and everything, but still. Even a lot of cub porn tends to be nothing but adult furs brutally raping cubs, or the cubs acting like complete sluts sitting on some big 10 foot long dick. But when it comes to the cute and innocent stuff, it fits us better (sorry, I suck at explaining things).
I've met a few cubs before who wished that there was a way they could get some real child porn without getting caught, thinking that it would be like the cute innocent babyfur cub stuff, only photos and videos of real toddlers. That's NOT what real child porn is at all. First off, 99% of it is teen girls and it's all (even the tiny bit that's not teen girls) just adult men brutally raping and torturing them. It's pretty fucked up. If you wanted cute innocent pics of actual babies and toddlers, you'd honestly stand a better chance of looking up stock photos on Google Images or Alamy or something.
Now where did I hear all this info from? I had a friend at one point who used to go exploring on the deep web, just to try and find weird and freaky shit out of curiosity. The topic came up in conversation and he told me about it since there's lots of that stuff on the deep web.
But tbh, I like the idea of artwork better, because you can use your imagination and make it however you want without doing anything illegal or without doing any potential physical or psychological harm to real kids. I mean, not all kids would hate that kind of stuff, but there are also plenty who would. Really I say blame the adults for having that fucked up rape "cock sleeve" mentality. That shit's traumatizing even to adults that are victimized with rape.
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25 Nov 2019 09:34 PST
Yeah. I don't look at CP, but I don't think you're correct that it's all horrible rape. The reason I wouldn't really wanna get involved in it, even if I knew that I couldn't get caught is because I could never know, even if it seemed perfectly consensual, whether or not there was abuse going on behind the scenes. I have talked to some people who have seen it though, and the assessment that it's all horrible rape stuff doesn't seem to be correct.
I think most kids would actually love sex if the societal views weren't what they are. Keep in mind when I say "sex" I don't just mean anal or vaginal penetration, which your kids are obviously too small to be at the receiving end of (unless they're doing it with another young kid). I mean mostly handjobs and blowjobs and stuff, and especially the kid being the one receiving the pleasure. That's the stuff that I don't think is inherently wrong, and I think pretty much all kids would enjoy if laws and society were better.
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25 Nov 2019 14:06 PST
I see what you're saying. I'm not saying I personally would endorse it, but I understand. Another thing you have to take into account is why society hates it so much. All throughout time sex has been viewed as bad by the majority of people. First because of religion (but really everything is bad according to religion) and later because people have made it into such an awkward topic and they've developed kind of a shame culture around it. I mean, I guess it's kind of a good thing in a way, because if religion hadn't surpressed it and people just ran around having as much sex as they wanted thousands of years ago, the world's population would be WAY more out of control than it is today. But at the same time, it also causes fear or shame for that kind of stuff. It's really nothing to be ashamed of and it's not "the devil's parts" or anything like religion says. They're just body parts, and the feelings that go along with them are natural too. I guess it also comes down to humanity trying to get over its natural instincts, but not all natural instincts are bad, at least when they're controlled and if that control is taught, especially at an early age. It's all this fear that "OMG, MY KID'S GONNA GROW UP TO BE A PERVERT AND A RAPIST!!!"
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26 Nov 2019 04:56 PST
(Sorry I didn't reply before. I was busy and stuff)
I think that deodorization of sex is far less universal than you seem to think. It's mostly the Abrahamic religions (Judaism, Christianity, and Islam) that do it. Plenty of other cultures thought history have celebrated sex, even of the pedophile kind. Also, I don't think that demonizing sex really makes much of a difference in terms of population, because the types of sex that can cause reproduction are usually the least demonized.
I don't think the fact that it's natural is what makes it okay, it's the fact that it doesn't hurt people. I don't think that people are naturally predisposed to be rapists. Any well-adjusted individual will know that hurting others to receive sexual gratification is not okay at all. and this is from mere empathy rather than having learned how to control their desires.
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26 Nov 2019 08:26 PST
Cultures that don't mind pedophilia? I've never heard of that. I mean, I know there's like 1 or 2 countries in the world where child porn is legal, but I didn't know about that. But at the same time, the Abrahamic religions are the most widely followed in the world and a lot of them say you're not allowed to have sex until you're married. Actually, I can quote my mom here. My mom's beliefs on sex (she's HARDCORE religious btw) is that you're not allowed to do it unless you're married, you're only allowed to do it to conceive a kid, you're only allowed to do it once (unless you can't get pregnant the first time), and you're not allowed to get any pleasure out of it (or show it at least). Basically just do it once and get it over with. I can't imagine how awkward that must have been for my dad when I was in the making.
I do have a question though (and I hope this doesn't sound too suspicious, because I've honestly had people accuse me of being a fed for asking shit like this). If you had kids IRL, how would you raise them and would you do anything naughty with them? Also, what would be your ideal age range? I'm assuming toddlers?
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26 Nov 2019 12:02 PST
It was more the "all throughout history" part that I was trying to despite. Considering that Humans (anatomically modern homo sapiens) have been around for roughfully 200,000 years, and the Abrahamic religions have been around for a about 3,000, that leaves the vast majority of human history being completely unaffected by them. Also, when they were around, but hadn't totally taken over, there were major civilizations with much less repressed viwes of sexuality, like the Greeks and Romans.
Also, regardless how they say sex, most people before modern times tried to have as many children as possible because children were "free labor," and for other reasons too. Of course, because things were generally very shitty at that time, most of these kids didn't survive to adult-hood, and it was scarcity and diseases far more than sex taboos that kept population in check.
One thing I know for sure I would do with my kids irl is to never force potty training on them. They could stay in diapers/pull-ups, and use them for as long as they wanted to. I honestly don't know in terms of sexual stuff. It's a very risky thing, but I can't say for sure that I wouldn't do it. I'm pretty decently attracted to boys from the ages of 4-12, so not really toddlers. I don't know if I have much of a specific age preference beyond that, but obviously starting younger means I would have more time being fully attracted to them. However, I'm lucky enough to not really be exclusive, and I am attracted to some older boys and men.
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26 Nov 2019 13:35 PST
With me, I would potty train my kids for when they're out of the house, like at school or something. But I'd teach them that it's perfectly okay to use diapees and pull ups and such when they're at home. I just wouldn't want any trouble for them in school or in public, because then I'd face the whole shit with "Why is your kid still in diapers at his age?" I mean shit, now these idiot yuppies are trying to potty train their kids before they're even a year old, just so they don't have to spend money on diapees.
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27 Nov 2019 12:23 PST
I think I'd do that to an extent, or at least tell them it's the best idea when they;re at school, but ultimately it'd be up to them. Of course, what I'd really want is societal views to change so it wouldn't be a problem.
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27 Nov 2019 13:23 PST
Lol, good luck getting society to change. Parents these days are trying to potty train their kids younger and younger so they don't have to keep buying diapers. I was afraid of the potty when I was little and proudly stayed in pull ups until I was 4. Most kids these days are out of pull ups by 2. Then the parents wonder why they still have accidents.
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27 Nov 2019 14:00 PST
I've actually heard a lot about it going in the other direction as well, with kids in early elementary school still being in pull-ups or diapers. I think as in many things, both extremes might be getting more common, which is somewhat interesting.
Even still, I don't really care what people think as me, so long as I wouldn't face actual negative consequences because of it. I'm more concerned about said hypothetical kids being bullied by other kids, or even adults, which is the primary reason my advice to them would be to wear undies, and use the potty when at school.
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27 Nov 2019 16:23 PST
Another thing you'd have to watch out for is that nowadays, these motherfuckers can do investigations for anything. They'll be trying to take your kid and stick him in a foster home or something, saying you're abusing him by not potty training him, like neglect or something.
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27 Nov 2019 16:36 PST
I've definitely heard people think that, and I don't get it. I've talked about it publicly on sites like Reddit, and people deadass accuse me of advocating for child abuse. I don't get it at all, how could letting a child do what they want, when it isn't hurting them or anyone else, possibly be abusive? Especially compared to the alternative, forced potty-training, which I think can often be abusive. This is also when I'm making it clear that I still believe that kids should be taught how to control their bowels and bladders, and how to use the potty, just that they should be allowed to do their business in diapers or pull-ups (or even their undies in some cases) when they would prefer to do so.
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27 Nov 2019 18:36 PST
To make a long story short, people are idiots, especially these stuck up rich yuppies today.
So I have another question. If you can remember, did you ever do anything naughty or messy when you were little?
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27 Nov 2019 19:13 PST
Nah, I was a pretty lame kid. I've never even had accidents since I was old enough to remember, and didn't try it on purpose until I was at least 12. I didn't masturbate until that age either, though I knew about it because I'd been reading naughty stories since I was about 10.
Though I guess I did do something slightly naughty. My mom told me that me and my Dad';s stepdaughter showed each other our bits when we were little. I was at my dad's house for the day or whatever. He actually spanked me for it for some dumb reason, which pissed my mom off.
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27 Nov 2019 20:05 PST
Hehehe, naughty butt. I don't think punishment is right for that. I mean, you should teach your kid that it's not okay to just do that to anybody or if the other person doesn't want to do it, but exploring like that is just natural curiosity.
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28 Nov 2019 02:02 PST
Of course it has to be consensual to be okay, but even my mom who isn't particularly pro-sex agrees with you there. She was pissed that my dad would spank me for it.
I don't believe that spanking is an appropriate punishment for anything, tbh.
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30 Nov 2019 17:13 PST
Hey I'm really sorry I disappeared on you. I had Thanksgiving going on and I've been suffering from seasonal depression and anxiety really really bad.
You have autism and who knows what other kind of mental disabilities too, so you might understand this. Is there anything in your life like a holiday or a tradition or something similar where you need to have it go a certain way, otherwise it literally drives you crazy? I don't mean just eating at the back of your mind. I mean it throws your anxiety and depression off, your heart rate increases, you start hyperventilating, your arms and legs grow weak, your mind is racing, and you just lose all sense of control.
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30 Nov 2019 17:25 PST
*hugs* Really sorry to hear that. I'm fortunate that I don't really have those types of severe problems, but I definitively empathize with you. I definitely remember feeling that way when I was younger, and I think a big part of the reason I haven't more recently is just that things have been going the way I expect them to.
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30 Nov 2019 17:41 PST
That's another thing (and I'm NOT saying you did this). People also sometimes have this whole "What do you expect? Just ignore it. Don't LET it get to you." attitude towards me with this shit. Fuck I HAAAAAAAAAAAATTTTTTTTTTTTTTTEEEEEEEEE people who say that kind of shit. If I could just simply ignore and get over it, do you really honestly think I'd be freaking out and panicking like this to begin with? Also, don't LET it get to me? What, do I WANT it to get to me? Am I some kind of sick freak who enjoys being miserable like this? Again I'm NOT saying that you said any of this. It's just one thing that your response reminded me to say and get out there. Just so you know, saying stuff like that is one of my BIGGEST triggers.
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30 Nov 2019 17:59 PST
Yeah. I definitely wasn't trying to have that attitude. I understand that the only reason that I can ignore my anxiety most of the time is because it's very minor. It's why I never really talk about anxiety because I know that my experiences do not in any way match those with extreme anxiety. Obviously no one would choose to be miserable.
Once again, sorry that you aren't doin so hot. *hugs and cuddles* presuming that physical affection is comforting to you in any way, if it isn't, then of course I wouldn't do it.
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30 Nov 2019 18:26 PST
It is. I love hugs and cuddles. I give lots to my plushies, but it's also special when it's from a real person too. Surprisingly, I'm not really a pet person. We used to have a dog, but after he died, I never really took to any other animals. If I could afford it, I wouldn't mind a nice loving kindhearted cat someday (not one with attitude that hates people). But I would never be able to afford it now. Plus my parents are not cat people. Also, I'd hate to get emotionally attached to a pet only for them to die years later. Plushies don't die unless they're destroyed. So as long as they're taken care of, they'll last forever.
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30 Nov 2019 18:41 PST
I also give a lot of hugs and cuddles to my plushies. I am a pet person (as well as a zoophile, which I'm willing to talk about of course), but yeah, animals dying is super sad.
It's kinda a false stereotype that cats hate people, most are pretty affectionate, at least most of the time.
Yeah, the fact that plushies don't die is definitely very nice. Also, if they do get terribly damaged, there are skilled people whi can repair them.
So, I'm really liking talking to you. I'd love to IM somewhere if you're interested. I primarily use Discord and something called tox to IM. My Discord is PedoCoon#4190 if you have one, and would like to chat there. Tox is something else that's kinda interesting, and good for file transfers and stuff. It's encrypted and peer-to-peer, which makes it pretty secure and private, but I'm not super concerned about that. The most popular desktop client is called qtox, which I use and would recommend, and there's an android cinnt called Antox which some of my friends use, but it's kinda buggy.
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30 Nov 2019 18:54 PST
Well what I meant by destroyed is if they get like torn apart or burned in a fire or something. Now I also kinda destroy or ruin plushies by peeing on them and stuff, but I only do that with certain ones I buy just for that purpose. Also, I look at it as just a different way of showing them affection and love. A warm wet musky way. X3
Yeah, I also have Discord and I much prefer IMs over talking here. I'll add you there.
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15 Jan 2020 17:33 PST
Yeah, Discord is glitching again. Hopefully they'll fix the notifications too while they're at it.
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15 Jan 2020 18:20 PST
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