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24 Feb 2020 11:30 PST
Your openness
Hey there! So recently I got the chance to check out your profile and saw you were pretty open about being a pedophile... May I ask why you're so open about it?
 
 
 
 
acompletenobody
 
CompliantCoon
 
 
24 Feb 2020 12:10 PST
Re: Your openness
I guess I always like to be as open as honest as I can be in a given situation. I'm not ashamed of who I am, I don't do anything illegal, and IB implicitedly allows open discussion of this stuff, so here I am.

It's not really been a secret here as long as I've known myself, but posting that "My Pedophilia" journal and the subsequent name change has actually led to a lot of new good friends, so I definitely don't regret it.

If you have any other question, just ask, and I'll be glad to anser :3
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
24 Feb 2020 13:02 PST
That's interesting that you actually made new friends :3

While I don't consider my self a pedophile, I think by definition, I am one? Because I definitely am attracted to younger boys and have been for as long as I can remember, just not exclusively. I've always wanted friends in this fandom who have this same attraction but am afraid of telling anyone, or else I'd be vilified/exposed/canceled and don't think I'd be able to live comfortably.

Did you lose friends as a result of coming out like that?
 
 
 
 
acompletenobody
 
CompliantCoon
 
 
24 Feb 2020 13:20 PST
I didn't really have any friends before, so quite the opposite. This is preferable imo because I know all of my friebds actually accept me and stuff

For me, this part of te fandom is all I car about, and I'm completely open here, so anyone trying to "expose" me is being quite silly (and people have done stuff like that, I just laugh)

I mean if my irl identity gets brought into it, that might be a problem, but yeah, I'm pretty good at staying safe in that way. Not even the artists I commission need to know my real name.

And yeah, if you are attracted to prepubescent children, you are a pedophile. It doesn't have to be exclusive. I'm not completely exclusive myself.
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
24 Feb 2020 14:13 PST
I'm not sure when I can be open about my pedophilia, if at all. I just hope that I can do it without any repercussion.

I didn't expect you to not have friends before x3, but that's great that you were able to find some that accept you. I hope to also find the same.

Anyway, I have no other questions at the moment.
I appreciate your response :3
 
 
 
 
acompletenobody
 
CompliantCoon
 
 
24 Feb 2020 14:16 PST
You're welcome. :3

Yeah, I've never been too social, and also I've known this about myself for a long time and kinda avoided getting close to people who didn't already know it.

If you wanna chat and stuff I use both Discord "PC (Notif-Friendly Coonbutt)#4190" and Tox "C02F78846F0B7124CEB9567DE9FB89AE65B895F36BF3F0B59310E64661F6E4405A6AF9EE667C" frequently.
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
24 Feb 2020 15:04 PST
Ok awesome!! I'll be sure to add you on tox when I get home
 
 
 
 
acompletenobody
 
CompliantCoon
 
 
24 Feb 2020 15:41 PST
Sounds like a plan :3
 
 
 
 
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